Systemic/Family Constellations
It’s not easy to describe something that requires personal experience to be understood. I first experienced constellations in 2017. The stirring in my body and soul, and the interest in my mind, led me to begin studying them that same year. And in fact, it continues to this day, and since the Spring of 2022, I have also been a professional practitioner. I am eternally grateful to have experienced them.
Animals, plants, planets, even galaxies and universes, live in systems. Humans are no exception; each of us belongs, is part of, above all, our ancestral system. From our mother and father, from these lineages. When we enter the world, we connect with subsequent systems (school, work, passions, people, etc.) or create our own (family, company, social circles). To survive, systems are governed by their own immutable laws. Science has called them systems theories. Bert Hellinger called them Orders of Love.
Constellations are a tool that provides insight into the systemic, personal or ancestral sources of life’s difficulties. Where life is disordered, a person experiences suffering. Constellations provide insight into the systems we live in, help us understand our place within them, the entanglements we face, and indicate how to reconcile with ourselves so that we can reconcile with others, with life. In effect, we organize the space around us.
The fundamental key to a “successful” constellation is the attitude of the facilitatort and the client, specifically: non-judgment, acceptance, appreciation, withdrawal, trust, openness, humility, knowledge, and… courage.
Constellations require a state of courage. It’s a vision of life where things are feasible, where we perceive the Creator as allowing life, where we have consent to our state of being and having. In a state of courage, we cease fighting, and the potential for accepting the truth about ourselves emerges. Then, the constellations strengthen and lead us toward something new.
Systemic Constellations Consultations
I invite you to a session focused on reconciliation within yourself. I will help you see the connection between the obvious and the unobvious within you and your life. During the session, you can begin to build or develop the most important system in your life, with yourself. This is the foundation of relationships with others and a stepping stone to a more mindful and present life. During the sessions, I work using the so-called ‘silent method’, working with the body or with wooden figurines. I also conduct online sessions, where, in addition to working with the body and figurines, I can use an online 3D tool for the sessions.
How do I work
A meeting may last from 1h-2hrs.
Before a meeting I kindly ask you to focus on as to why you are coming to a meeting or simply think of a question you want to ask. The least I know upfront the better. I may ask further questions during a constellation.
In each case, I give full attention, I am honest and direct. I do not judge you, people and situations involved. I make sure you understand what you see and feel. I might support you in planning next steps should you feel like.
Price 100 euros.
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