I will share with you mine – I will call them ‘rules’ for the purpose of this post – that I follow as a client:

1. Each of my topics is correct.

I don’t allow my inner critic to ridicule, laugh or belittle any topic.

2. The intention of my works is reconciliation within myself.

Not in the family. Not parents. Not the world.

3. I only work with my own feelings, with what I have difficulties or problems with in life. Even if the topic concerns loved ones, I make sure that I choose to work with my emotional state. This is important.

4. In constellations I don’t look for excuses for myself. The moment I noticed this victim syndrome changed a lot, especially in the context of the quality of my constellations.

5. I let the topic mature in me, I give it time.

This is because when I ask a question, the answers come in life. I can’t always see it or read it. I give myself the right to say ‘I don’t know’. When the topic persists, only then I decide to ‘constellate it’.

6. If I have several topics, I inform the facilitator about it. Sometimes it turns out that they are related. And sometimes I have difficulty choosing, which is information in itself about my condition. And sometimes I want too much. Too much is a sign of a lack feeling.

7. I don’t use constellations out of curiosity about family history.

8. I don’t discuss with anyone what I’m going to work with. I don’t discuss my workflow with anyone. This remains between me and the constellator. Sometimes in psychotherapy I return to the constellation, or more precisely to my feelings, if it is related to the therapy.

9. Once constellated, I give the topic time to manifest in life. I let go, I don’t think about the constellation. I have noticed that manifestation in life takes time.

10. Sometimes constellation ‘complete’ in life, these moments are the most beautiful for me. As if the parts were falling back into place, order takes place.

Magdalena Magrian-Lewandowska

‘Orders of Life’

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Individual sessions, consultations: systemic constellations, Hellinger constellations, psychobiology, work with the inner child, work with emotions, work with beliefs.

The session lasts up to 1.15 hours.

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